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WOMEN AND SOFT POWER
How women (and men) can change the world
For as long as any of us can remember, we have lived in a world
controlled by hard power. A world where dominant nations have used
money, arms and strong talk to coerce weaker nations into a global
world order.
Soft power, first identified by a Harvard Professor during the
Clinton years, began as an alternative – if secondary – strategy
for a less predictable, globalised world. Instead of forcing and
intimidating the weak into compliance, these nations would use
persuasion, attraction and influence for the same ends. Soft power
took the form of diplomacy, trading must-have objects – from
PCs to McDonalds - and exporting artists of all kinds who somehow
embodied the values of the dominant nations. Using soft power as
an adjunct to hard power, they could have a much greater hold on
the weaker nations than ever.
But what kind of world has emerged with hard power still calling
most of the shots and soft power operating in the shadows? Fast,
furious, fun: certainly. But on the brink of self-destruction in
at least three ways: environmental degradation the world over,
extreme poverty in developing nations and a nuclear arms build-up
which threatens us all. From a global eye’s view, it is a
hard and dangerous reality, with far too many losers. How did we
come to this and how can we challenge it?
All my life I have searched for ways and means to make a difference.
But it was not until I became the mother of a boy, watching him
struggle to come to a positive identity in this Western society,
that I began to understand that masculinity has been the right
hand in shaping the world as we know it. Men dominate leadership,
ownership, invention and media visibility: they also, overwhelmingly,
dominate crime, violence, militia and business. The world that
we know and share is the world that they have fashioned.
But I can see my boy has the option to grow up differently. In
an age where women have begun to claw back some of their agency,
he is far less sure about the function and purpose of his masculinity.
Just as science begins to allow for essential differences between
the sexes to be part of the picture, he is willing to address the
downsides of his maleness, whether it be a quickness to anger or
a reluctance to communicate. He wants to play well and often, the
way that men do –but he wants to care well too and just as
passionately.
Knowing full well that many of the men that came before him will
not be as open to a gentler story about the world as he is, what
can girls and women do to help enable the changes that could take
place? How can men and women work together to make a real difference
to our world? Which words and concepts can create bridges between
what women always wanted and men are beginning to value?
Within the overwhelmingly male political culture, soft power
has – till now - been marginalised. Nevertheless, it does
offer an entry point for women – and the ‘less hard’ young
men like my son - into society and politics: a means whereby they
can begin to assert their values and vision of a very different
world. A less violent, more cooperative, more mutually appreciative,
more connected world. A more patient, developmental, transformative
and conscious world.
This book calls upon both women and men – but particularly
older women and younger men - to pick up Soft Power where the politicians
and experts have left it. No longer a second-best option, soft
power has the potential to become the key to unlocking a new era
of peace and development. If that sounds like a soft notion, then
call me soft.
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